Girl Code

Usually I'm not a fan of these unspoken rules, but in MY opinion there are a couple things girls just shouldn't do, especially to their BEST GIRL FRIENDS. For instance, flirting with your best friends boyfriend is a solid no, I don't care how much you "love" him, he's mine, so back the fuck off. Secondly, if you DO like your best friends boyfriend, don't tell her, don't make it known to her, that just makes her feel like she's in a competition with you. Also, don't be a hoe, and flirt with MY boyfriend and the guy my friend likes when you're clearly dating someone.

Next, there should not be a necessary pity party following you in order for you to be happy. Seriously, even I don't need a pity party and I'm the one who has been to hell and back. I'm NOT a victim, and your petty problems are NOTHING compared to mine. Sure I can pull the victim card, but I don't want to, you know why? BECAUSE, I AM STRONG, if anything, I am strong for surviving through all that shit. These scars on my wrist don't mean anything other than I SURVIVED.

YOU, do not have the horrors embedded in your mind, terrors which you can never forget, the screams you can never imagine yourself uttering ever again. Your mind has only been twisted slightly while mine has been ripped apart, and you do NOT need a pity party.