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So what if I'm a 13 year old girl?!


By sfb13 on 7/22/2010 2:42 AM
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So what if I'm a 13 year old girl?!
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My dad is so unfair.
He said I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend, have boys in my room, wear bikinis, wear short shorts, wear low cut shirts, wear heels, get high lights, get my belly button or nose pierced, and I mean the list goes on and on.
I know some of you might think, "Get over it. He's your dad you have to listen to him. And your only 13 years old. Do you want to be a slut?" but you have to understand this one thing.
He lets my stepbrother do ANYTHING.
My stepbrother is MY age. He's 13, and I'm 13. He is only a FEW months older than me.
But my dad lets him wear and do what he wants.
My dad bought him a shirt that said, "Free Dick Rides!"
Like what the hell?
I can't wear a bikini but he can wear THAT!?
If I ever got a shirt that said, "I'll Ride Your Dick for Free!" my dad would fucking KILL me.
And also today he had a GIRL in his room, and after she left my dad said to him, "Did you get some?"
WHAT THE FUCKING HELL IS UP WITH THAT!?!
And I was like, "So I can't have a boy in my room, but he can have a girl in his room?"
And my dad was like, "Yeah he can, he's a boy."
But I was like thinking, "What the fuck? That GIRL is someone's DAUGHTER you know!?"
Then my stepmom was like, "Well what if she had 5 other girls with her, and some boy showed up, and she left the door open? She couldn't even do that?"
And my dad was like, "No she couldn't."
Like he DOESN'T trust me. Does he think I'm going to just have sex at fucking 13?
Because I AM NOT GOING TO!
I don't WANT to be a slut who hooks up with guys at 13. That's NOT me.
Don't get me wrong I think you know like kissing and making out is okay, and I think you should dress how you want too, but that doesn't make me want to have sex.
My dad trusts my stepbrother more than me!
It makes me so mad!
So what if I'm a 13 year old girl?! Does that mean I can't do the same things a 13 year old boy can do?!
I CAN say NO you know?
People judge every 13 year old girl calling them sluts and thinking that if they had the chance, they would sleep with someone, but NEWSFLASH, it's not fucking true.
Yes, SOME girls do have sex at 13, but MOST don't.
I'm so fucking pissed off!
What the hell?!
I hate not being trusted.

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ibnakhal
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Posted on: 1/3/2012 10:02 AM
Don't fret, some people have it off worse. I'm 17 and I never had a girlfriend, yeah i never wanted to have a relationship, but I'm also forbidden from having a girlfriend, and any relations at all with girls, save talking, which still ticks off some people where I live. But I think your Dad is wrong, even though i agree with what he's doing the way he's going about it is very unfair. But think about this, he's given you one thing that your step-brother doesn't, a sensible mind. In fact, I see you a smart woman in the future, and your step-brother a drunkard who gets arrested a lot. Have faith, sit your dad down, and get reasons why he won't let you do those things, and see what you can work out with him, it could very much be the way he grew up btw (50 years ago things were so different)
Posted on: 9/3/2011 12:46 PM
It's understandable why your dad is the way he is about boys/sex, but it's bad parenting and sexist that he treats your step brother that way. What sucks is that he doesn't understand he is being harmful with his overprotective nature (notice how some girls who are sheltered, and i mean SHELTERED, go wild when they're finally free) You should sit down and talk with him like an adult and bring up these issues and how you feel and see if you can come to a compromise- maybe a family meeting with everyone involved.
Posted on: 5/31/2011 2:21 AM
It's a sexist thing. I work in a shop with the majority of the workers, about 95%, are men. A lot of them feel that it is ok for a man to have sex at a younger age than a woman. Most of them would and have encouraged their son to have sex at 13 but don't want their daughters to have sex until they are moved out and married. They think its ok for guys to sleep around with lots of women and actually encourage it. But if a grown woman has sex with 5 people she's a whore. I'm sorry that your dad is a jerk but the reality is, there are a lot of men out there like that(although not all men are like that). He will probably never change, unfortunately.
Posted on: 10/31/2010 12:48 AM
you don't get it. here's the thing, you are his "real" daughter. he cares about you more than anything because he knows that when he was younger, he didn't give dipshit about girls. as for your stepbrother, your father lets him do what he wants and enforces his behavior because he doesn't care for him and would not have any problem with him or anyone else getting into trouble because he doesn't "love" them as he loves you. believe me when i say this, "you father is scared to death that anything bad will happen to you and he will blame himself for not protecting you in the first place."

also, boys like your stepbrother are the reason why fathers are afraid for their daughters. Ironic, but it is.
Posted on: 8/4/2010 3:16 AM
my step-daughtor is in the same place as you are! It total sucks for her (being with her real mom) just keep on trucken girl! I feel for you!
mxgirl22
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Posted on: 7/25/2010 7:16 AM
That's messed up! I think he should trust you, as long as you haven't done anything to break it..When I saw that you mentioned he doesn't even let you have highlights I thought that was a little ridiculous. You're 13 your should be able to change your hair if you want to imo. I think your dad is just overprotective (A LOT). Hope things get better!